17.  Have either of the biological parents had similar experiences as a child or as an adult?

We are a combination of our genes and our experiences.   Certain of our mental characteristics can be inherited, just like hair or eye color.  How the parents learned to cope can provide insight into what can help their children.  Take a look at your learning style to see if it is similar to your child's.  Notice whether things that were difficult for you as a child to learn are also hard for your child.  However, even if there are similarities, a child’s input into the type of treatment could be beneficial and increase his or her self-esteem.